We can decide later but I thought it may be better to have certain pages as "Members only" not to be snobbish but some might be happier to enter personal details that way.
Once you have "joined" I need to apply the "acceptance" thereafter you will just need to "login" to access members only pages. You don't need to be a member of the site to look at it.
  Hope you are OK with this

WHEN JOINING PLEASE PUT YOUR ACTUAL NAME IN THE "USERNAME" BOX